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  • UW_Doog_Bot
    UW_Doog_Bot Member, Swaye's Wigwam Posts: 18,560 Founders Club

    MisterEm said:

    MisterEm said:

    The family isn't dead. Its the number one way that Asian immigrants out perform even citizens in gaining wealth

    We? are selfish - I'm guilty of that. That's why I didn't want kids. When I got some pre grown ones I golfed all weekend. I sucked but my son thinks I was great simply because I set a good example about hard work and consistent effort. He is a success.

    Long live the family. Fuck the state

    There is no ideal family nor are there family values. That is political sloganeering. Do the best you can. Don't have kids if you can't put them first.

    Adopt a shelter dog instead

    Except that some family structure yield better outcomes than others. Family is dead for large swaths of American society. The State has been part of the problem.

    Gosh maybe we should encourage the ones that work better? Too radical?
    According to my kid's kindergarten class, yes, this is too radical. We're supposed to support disruption of western values.
    You are obviously an engaged parent ready to counteract the transition surgery of lil Yellow. That's like #1 on the hit parade. Requires time and effort.

    Almost 25 years ago my Black friend told me about how his second grader came home and told him that the teacher told the class they couldn't be spanked anymore. So of course he gave her a spanking and said tell your teacher to come see me if she has a problem

    Today the teacher probably would call the cops.

    People disagree on spanking and abuse is of course WRONG and teachers should be on the lookout for signs but not interfere to that level.

    I was spanked and my wife was tuff on the boy but he ended up THANKFUL for it. I'm glad she wan't my mom. I thought the wooden spoon was bad

    Kids need discipline. And love.
    I put the fear of god in the kids all the time. The kids have been present when I talk to the teachers about their progressive nonsense. Shit...a few weeks ago I had to chat with the teacher because lil' Yella blurted out in class "My daddy doesn't like Black Lives Matter".
    Good chit, Yella.

    I got banned from attending one of my kid's sports leagues because he told the coach I'd spank his ass after the coach told me what happened at the dive grass camp with another kid.

    "We wont tolerate beating our children, nor tolerate the aggressor"

    Bullshit, he deserved it. And he handled center mid just fine the rest of the year.

    🖕🏽🖕🏽
    I'm scared to meet @MisterEm in real life.


    I fucking hate how schools/sports/SocialMedia promote soft, entitled boys as a positive societal attribute throughout adolescence....

    Then we turn around and wonder why they've got pronouns in their bios and can't wipe their own ass without a handout as adults.

    Men should be men.
    We’ve already had pronoun training and and school sanctioned BLM week before age 6. All this seems excessive to me.

    I want my kids to grow up tuff and be good at a sport. I want them to be well rounded too and do something like excel at classical piano or guitar. But most importantly I want them to not be dicks. Don’t need pronoun course at age 5 to achieve this.
    Bigot.
  • BearsWiin
    BearsWiin Member Posts: 5,076

    BearsWiin said:

    Such a weird thing to say

    This seems eerily similar to when my heroic image of you was shattered forever at the hands of the barbaric but victorious @HoustonHusky .

    You swoop in all authoritative-like with a half-ass'd opinion expressed with the usual Berkeley Bob dismissive arrogance ... i.e., you casually know something that I couldn't know even if I were to try.

    Blew up in your face before; seems like it will again.
    you think your better than me but your not POTD

    envious resentment is so unbecoming
  • Bendintheriver
    Bendintheriver Member Posts: 7,183 Standard Supporter

    BearsWiin said:

    BearsWiin said:

    BearsWiin said:

    Tug family values thread is a fucking hoot

    You live the same family values as me. What’s your point?
    Mayberry existed only on the television
    Biological mom and dad living together ain’t Mayberry. Wasn’t Matlock a single dad?
    Your smart enough to recognize the use of an idyllic stereotype. None of us remembers the town the Cleavers lived in

    The world is changing and it scares me TOTW
    And you’re smarter than me and should know that no civilization in human history with the single parent model has been successful. No one is saying it needs to be Ward and June Cleaver. They can be Scandinavian life parters for all I care so long as there is some Mom + Dad (or Dad and Dad) teamwork going on.
    Statistics don't lie. No father around puts children in the high risk category. Its a fact yet rats want to believe everything is just fine and that the "Village" is going to take care of everyone's child. Bearswin just FEELS so WOKE when he comes into the thread and tries to falsely accuse people of thinking it is all Mayberry. Its what rats do to make themselves feel smarter. Did it make you FEEL GOOD Bear?

    The idea that women think they can just have a kid and don't need a father is disastrous, the statistics say so. It has been particularly disastrous to the black community. Men thinking that they can just knock up some woman who wants to get pregnant and then not have anything to do with the child is criminal in my book. They are hurting that other human being they take no responsibility for.

    All the proof is out there and the left continues to push a failed ideology on the country. Thank God Trump won. It slowed their destruction down a bit.

    More and more family breakdown doesn’t care about skin color. Pour whites are going the same direction.
    As uncomfortable as it is to address racial issues, to ignore a 73% (and growing) born without a father in the home in the black American community is wrong. This is different from all other ethnicities and the reasons are different. We have to fix this. No other statistic comes close. It is a defining characteristic for our fellow Americans. The growing issue across all of America certainly needs to be addressed but we are looking at generations of black kids starting below the poverty line over poor decision making by the mother and sperm donor.
  • MikeDamone
    MikeDamone Member Posts: 37,781

    BearsWiin said:

    BearsWiin said:

    BearsWiin said:

    Tug family values thread is a fucking hoot

    You live the same family values as me. What’s your point?
    Mayberry existed only on the television
    Biological mom and dad living together ain’t Mayberry. Wasn’t Matlock a single dad?
    Your smart enough to recognize the use of an idyllic stereotype. None of us remembers the town the Cleavers lived in

    The world is changing and it scares me TOTW
    And you’re smarter than me and should know that no civilization in human history with the single parent model has been successful. No one is saying it needs to be Ward and June Cleaver. They can be Scandinavian life parters for all I care so long as there is some Mom + Dad (or Dad and Dad) teamwork going on.
    Statistics don't lie. No father around puts children in the high risk category. Its a fact yet rats want to believe everything is just fine and that the "Village" is going to take care of everyone's child. Bearswin just FEELS so WOKE when he comes into the thread and tries to falsely accuse people of thinking it is all Mayberry. Its what rats do to make themselves feel smarter. Did it make you FEEL GOOD Bear?

    The idea that women think they can just have a kid and don't need a father is disastrous, the statistics say so. It has been particularly disastrous to the black community. Men thinking that they can just knock up some woman who wants to get pregnant and then not have anything to do with the child is criminal in my book. They are hurting that other human being they take no responsibility for.

    All the proof is out there and the left continues to push a failed ideology on the country. Thank God Trump won. It slowed their destruction down a bit.

    More and more family breakdown doesn’t care about skin color. Pour whites are going the same direction.
    As uncomfortable as it is to address racial issues, to ignore a 73% (and growing) born without a father in the home in the black American community is wrong. This is different from all other ethnicities and the reasons are different. We have to fix this. No other statistic comes close. It is a defining characteristic for our fellow Americans. The growing issue across all of America certainly needs to be addressed but we are looking at generations of black kids starting below the poverty line over poor decision making by the mother and sperm donor.
    "We" can't fix it. And certainly it won't be fixed by yelling about systemic/institutionalized racism. Which doesn't exist
  • USMChawk
    USMChawk Member Posts: 1,800

    MisterEm said:

    MisterEm said:

    The family isn't dead. Its the number one way that Asian immigrants out perform even citizens in gaining wealth

    We? are selfish - I'm guilty of that. That's why I didn't want kids. When I got some pre grown ones I golfed all weekend. I sucked but my son thinks I was great simply because I set a good example about hard work and consistent effort. He is a success.

    Long live the family. Fuck the state

    There is no ideal family nor are there family values. That is political sloganeering. Do the best you can. Don't have kids if you can't put them first.

    Adopt a shelter dog instead

    Except that some family structure yield better outcomes than others. Family is dead for large swaths of American society. The State has been part of the problem.

    Gosh maybe we should encourage the ones that work better? Too radical?
    According to my kid's kindergarten class, yes, this is too radical. We're supposed to support disruption of western values.
    You are obviously an engaged parent ready to counteract the transition surgery of lil Yellow. That's like #1 on the hit parade. Requires time and effort.

    Almost 25 years ago my Black friend told me about how his second grader came home and told him that the teacher told the class they couldn't be spanked anymore. So of course he gave her a spanking and said tell your teacher to come see me if she has a problem

    Today the teacher probably would call the cops.

    People disagree on spanking and abuse is of course WRONG and teachers should be on the lookout for signs but not interfere to that level.

    I was spanked and my wife was tuff on the boy but he ended up THANKFUL for it. I'm glad she wan't my mom. I thought the wooden spoon was bad

    Kids need discipline. And love.
    I put the fear of god in the kids all the time. The kids have been present when I talk to the teachers about their progressive nonsense. Shit...a few weeks ago I had to chat with the teacher because lil' Yella blurted out in class "My daddy doesn't like Black Lives Matter".
    Good chit, Yella.

    I got banned from attending one of my kid's sports leagues because he told the coach I'd spank his ass after the coach told me what happened at the dive grass camp with another kid.

    "We wont tolerate beating our children, nor tolerate the aggressor"

    Bullshit, he deserved it. And he handled center mid just fine the rest of the year.

    🖕🏽🖕🏽
    I'm scared to meet @MisterEm in real life.


    I fucking hate how schools/sports/SocialMedia promote soft, entitled boys as a positive societal attribute throughout adolescence....

    Then we turn around and wonder why they've got pronouns in their bios and can't wipe their own ass without a handout as adults.

    Men should be men.
    It will suck if we ever need to win another major war or build something like the grand coulee dam.
    Nah, the current crop of Marines is just as capable as we were, 30 years ago, and are as capable as the generations before us. For every transfluid gender queer getting the spotlight there are hundreds (thousands? millions?) of kids growing up the old fashioned way. Fallujah was as brutal fighting as you could get (think WWII European theater) and we smoked them.
  • creepycoug
    creepycoug Member Posts: 24,286
    BearsWiin said:

    BearsWiin said:

    Such a weird thing to say

    This seems eerily similar to when my heroic image of you was shattered forever at the hands of the barbaric but victorious @HoustonHusky .

    You swoop in all authoritative-like with a half-ass'd opinion expressed with the usual Berkeley Bob dismissive arrogance ... i.e., you casually know something that I couldn't know even if I were to try.

    Blew up in your face before; seems like it will again.
    you think your better than me but your not POTD

    envious resentment is so unbecoming