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  • WestlinnDuck
    WestlinnDuck Member Posts: 18,085 Standard Supporter
    Kaepsknee said:

    SFGbob said:

    SFGbob said:

    I remember the single mom cult

    Still remnants on House Hunters

    "As a single mom....."

    NOC lady

    As a society we really should be in position where people are ashamed to say that publicly. It should be seen as a personal failing.
    Depends

    My dad left as I was about to enter high school because my older brother and sister were above child support age. So I was raised as a high schooler by a single mom

    And I raised hell across the city

    It's supposedly "cultural" to have as many baby mamas as possible over the last few decades. And it is a cycle that repeats.

    The white trailer park and the black ghetto are similar in this regard by the way

    I would draw a distinction between someone who was married, had kids and then had their wife and or husband leave them and someone who was never married and had kids. Hell I'd even draw a distinction between the single mother who has one kid and the single mother who has multiple kids. And none of this has anything to do with skin color.
    I have no scorn for Single Mothers as a stand-alone.

    The old saying of its not what happens to you but how you react and where you go from there applies.
    I do think they need some understanding, but single motherhood relying on the state to pay for her kid and take care of it should definitely be seen as a moral failure. You can scorn a pregnant mother for drinking or smoking but not for being pregnant with no support mechanisms? For some reason, in my peer group there were no single mothers. People got divorced, but the father stayed as the father and the kids had two live in parents for their formative years - 0 to say middle school.
  • SFGbob
    SFGbob Member Posts: 33,219

    Kaepsknee said:

    SFGbob said:

    SFGbob said:

    I remember the single mom cult

    Still remnants on House Hunters

    "As a single mom....."

    NOC lady

    As a society we really should be in position where people are ashamed to say that publicly. It should be seen as a personal failing.
    Depends

    My dad left as I was about to enter high school because my older brother and sister were above child support age. So I was raised as a high schooler by a single mom

    And I raised hell across the city

    It's supposedly "cultural" to have as many baby mamas as possible over the last few decades. And it is a cycle that repeats.

    The white trailer park and the black ghetto are similar in this regard by the way

    I would draw a distinction between someone who was married, had kids and then had their wife and or husband leave them and someone who was never married and had kids. Hell I'd even draw a distinction between the single mother who has one kid and the single mother who has multiple kids. And none of this has anything to do with skin color.
    I have no scorn for Single Mothers as a stand-alone.

    The old saying of its not what happens to you but how you react and where you go from there applies.
    I do think they need some understanding, but single motherhood relying on the state to pay for her kid and take care of it should definitely be seen as a moral failure. You can scorn a pregnant mother for drinking or smoking but not for being pregnant with no support mechanisms? For some reason, in my peer group there were no single mothers. People got divorced, but the father stayed as the father and the kids had two live in parents for their formative years - 0 to say middle school.
    Exactly, statistically you're much more likely to do harm to your kid if you're bringing them up without a father in the household than you are if you have a drink or two while you're pregnant.
  • Pitchfork51
    Pitchfork51 Member Posts: 27,695
    If you have more than 1 kid from more than 1 dad and neither is around you just might be right for Kobe
  • SFGbob
    SFGbob Member Posts: 33,219
    edited April 2022

    If you have more than 1 kid from more than 1 dad and neither is around you just might be right for Kobe

    Kobe calls that extreme Freedom and extreme progress. In fact the more out of wedlock births you have, with as many different men as possible, the more "progressive" you are in Kobe's world.
  • Pitchfork51
    Pitchfork51 Member Posts: 27,695
    SFGbob said:

    If you have more than 1 kid from more than 1 dad and neither is around you just might be right for Kobe

    Kobe calls that extreme Freedom and extreme progress. In fact the more out of wedlock births you have, with as many different men as possible, the more "progressive" you are in Kobe's world.
    to be fair thats true. Thats gotta be a 100 percent Dem voting bloc